Dating a girl with borderline personality disorder, find the good stuff
It seemed to make a lot of sense until I came across several articles on BP which seem to be even more consistent with what had occurred. I beat myself up during and after trying to figure out what I could have done more or better.
Greetings RickThanks. I moved past that part quickly.
She needs to be working on her actions as well. Anyone who spends anytime in a relationship with a BDP will soon realize that the life they had will be sucked out of them.
Kind of fucked up but hey we live in a fucked up world. Simply digging further and further trying to contact her only made these worse.
We have been together for a year. Advice would be welcome, and I have some other things I would possibly like to speak with you over email about in order to get an idea of what I need to do to simply find peace.
Talks and behave as though we are a couple, Even though i have told him we are not.
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I can handle my alcohol, dont worry about that. Important enough for me to clearly state my boundaries regardless of what that statement may mean.
I was contemplating on whether to end my life or not based on the previous web pages I saw -bashing people dating a girl with borderline personality disorder BPD low priority matchmaking pool lol claiming they are undatable.
BPD or not some things cannot be permitted.
The person they knew and love is still there, somewhere deep down inside. She started the process five years ago. Is that what you are suggesting?
Having this new mentality and skillset will allow you to break the common flow of abuse and toxicity that brings pain to you and the relationship. Well, low and behold, she emails asking me to come over and rub her back, which I said maybe this week, but not tonight.
How to Know if Your Partner Has BPD
This is not helpful and certainly not an easy quality to deal with in someone you share your life with, but the key to it working is understanding why the person does the things they do so you can work together to help them.
I attempted to call and text her but she had blocked me from contact. I really wanted to express my point of view and again for all those men out there struggling with this relationships, just read all the comments in here!
Be interested only in the results they produce, not their excuses. That one should not have a sexual relation with a BPD girl?